Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Addressing Those Around Us

It was a good, focused rehearsal tonight. I am relieved that most of the rehearsals are strong and focused. Tonight was especially hard because we had so much to get done. Other than work on our own pieces, we also had our guitarist come in. Then the mens chorus came in for the last 45 minutes to work with us on the joint pieces. It was long and vocally demanding.

I never know how to address professors. Having taught for five years, I learned to start thinking of everyone by their first name. I found that when I thought of someone as a "Mr." or "Mrs./Ms.", at times it was difficult to work collaboratively and feel comfortable/confident speaking up in meetings. In front of students, I called them by their title, but not in conversation. Now at graduate school, it is a bit of a strange situation. No matter what, I always call a professor by their title in front of undergrads. Normally in a classroom setting with graduate students as well- out of habit and formality in a structured setting. In a casual setting, my tendency is to think of professors as people- and thus by their first names. I call my teacher by his first name unless we are in front of students.

Perhaps at one point I needed to call professors by their official titles to understand their position as an educator. I really do not feel that how I address someone affects how I view them now. If anything, a professor that insists on being called by their title in all situations I will probably think is pretentious. When I become a professor (notice "when", not "if"), I will probably want undergraduates to call me by "professor" for a few reasons that I am perhaps a little too tired to explain clearly at the moment. I'm not so keen on "Dr". I will certainly not insist my colleagues call me anything other than my first name and if there are graduate students at my school, I will not ask that they do either. Although I think I want to work at an institution that is undergraduate only. I have only just begun to think about that.

I may change my mind on all this as I am in the profession longer. But I don't think so.

1 comment:

Austen Wilson said...

I always (and still do) call my grad school professors by their title (Dr. or Mr. - all of the female profs had a DMA or PhD). Many times this is a formality. Only in some circumstances wasthat titled was earned because I respected that professor so much. It was made abundantly clear that they were the professor and I was the student. I was definitely not there to collaborate with them (not my preference). In some instances, I thought the professors cared more about research than teaching.